How do you stop missing someone?
Why do our emotions have such a strong hold on us?
Why can the absence of a loved one reek such havoc on us?
Maybe because when we love, we create an attachment
Which is weak or strong based on the type of love
This attachment serves us well when we are with the one we love
But take them out of the equation
And then you don’t know what to do with that empty spot
It takes time to fill that spot with other loves
Like it took time to build the love we lost
And in the meantime, how do we deal with the hole That has been created?
How do we deal with the pain of absence?
Maybe it’s by attaching ourselves to a higher power
A love that supersedes all other love
A love that is the creator of other loves
A love that won’t abandon us
An intangible love
But a powerful one
That love can fill the hole faster than other loves
That love can help us heal
That love, one that we sometimes forget to call on
December 28th, 2019