The humility of acceptance
What profound words
To accept our shortcomings
To acknowledge them
To live with them
And work towards overcoming them
Not to expect perfection
Because that cant be
But to seek improvement
Be as good as we can be
To know we have limits
And to respect them
To know we can break
If we dont acknowledge them
To accept ourselves as we are
Even during moments of weakness
To look for lessons we need to learn
To know we can be mistaken
To realize that growth
Can happen anytime
When one is an adult
Or a child
To face problems
Rather than run from them
To know we can succeed
If we try
To feel empowered to act
To have faith in goodness and kindness
To reach out to others
When were down
To have patience when
Something takes time
The end will come
It always does
The humility of acceptance
Comes with time
Comes with trials
It comes with battles lost and won
November 5th, 2011
To Facebook or
Not to Facebook?
Perhaps the answer is not no or yes
Its hard to ignore something
Rather how much should I facebook each day?
To avoid getting addicted or perturbed?
And who should be my friend on Facebook?
Who should read every update
And see every photo?
Pictures and words can connect us, of course
Keep us up to date and in the know
But should I put all my pictures on Facebook?
Im impressed when people ask for information
And pose questions in their status updates
An interesting way to use their network of friends
But do we need facebook for
In a relationship can mean one thing to me,
Another to my friend
And what does its complicated actually mean?
This one really confuses me!
Friending is fun
But when do I defriend?
How do I feel if Im the one being
How often should I change
My profile picture?
In it, should I include my spouse
And my lovely children?
Do I have to like someones comment
So they know it was read?
Do I like the whole album
Or just photos of a friend?
Facebook like anything else
Can be used in different ways
And these are choices that we need to make!
And for good or for bad I am afraid,
Facebook is here to stay
November 11th, 2011
Getting to what feels right
Often comes from things going wrong!*
How true is that!
Been there, done that many times!
Why do we think we should have the answers
Why do we see mistakes as a waste of time?
Why do we think of failure as final?
They could just be a new place, to start!
A choice is just that!
It has consequences of course
Consequences that we will like, or
Consequences that can lead us somewhere new
Those who succeed, fall many times
The secret is to have the strength
To get up each time!
Why are we so hard on ourselves?
Why do we expect success the first time?
There is no shame in turning around
Until we get to the place that feels right!
November 2nd, 2011